Sex Addict Therapy Sex Addiction, is otherwise called hypersexuality, Ego-dystonic Hypersexuality, Sexual Impulse Control Disorder, Sexual Compulsivity or Paraphilic and non-Paraphilic sexual behaviour. It is a maladaptive pattern of sexual behaviour leading to clinically significant impairment or distress, as manifested by three or more number of key markers [...]
Porn Addict Therapy
Gary McFarlane2022-01-18T12:32:33+00:00Porn Addict Therapy. Porn addiction, like drugs and alcohol addiction, tends to require increase or vary over time. Therefore in order to get to the same level of arousal and stimulation, your behaviours may become more frequent or severe. Sexual compulsive and addiction behaviours include: Magazine pornography Internet [...]
Love Addict Therapy
Gary McFarlane2022-01-18T12:33:07+00:00Love Addict Therapy Love addiction is very real, and we can help provide Love Addict Therapy. Mostly seen in women, the Love addict has very intense emotions including anger, fear, hate and love for the other person. At its root hides issues of childhood insecure bonding and Attachment/Rejection/loss [...]
Support For Partners
Gary McFarlane2024-05-14T11:39:16+01:00Support For Partners of Sex Addicts “Once again he/she gets the attention and is using up the household income on their own therapy and I am left carrying their stuff on my own”. This is an understandable complaint don’t you think? Partners, that is NOT how it ought [...]
Relationships Counselling
Gary McFarlane2022-01-18T12:34:29+00:00Relationships Counselling In 2014 a group of artists in England asked thousands of people one question: “What is your happiest memory?” The responses were nearly always about relationships of one kind or another. There was a longing for relationship and home. Less than 1% mentioned material things. [...]
Advanced Sexual Practices
Gary McFarlane2023-09-04T14:29:07+01:00Advanced Sexual Practices Advanced Sex Practices - advanced learnings for those who want to know & learn "bringing about healthy, progressive conversations about sex” Many Christians have a restricted view of what is right and not okay for Christians as a sexual outlet and activities in marriage. Unapologetically, these [...]
Anger, Resentment, Rage, Revenge
Rob2023-11-21T14:09:05+00:00Anger, Resentment, Rage, Revenge as an outlet or is it more about Powerlessness & Fear? Handle the emotions; Release the emotions – Differently. Anger is not to be condemned or quashed. It is an appropriate physiological response, but being manifested in an inappropriate manner. Anger Management skills is not [...]
EMDR Therapy
Gary McFarlane2025-07-11T10:02:47+01:00Gary McFarlane is an EMDR Association UK member and Accredited EMDR Practitioner What is EMDR ( Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)? EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a psychotherapy that enables people to heal from the symptoms and emotional distress that are the result of disturbing life [...]
Sex Therapy
Gary McFarlane2022-01-18T12:36:11+00:00Sex Therapy The Kairos Centre provide professional therapy and counselling across the full spectrum of Sex Therapy services for couples and individuals. Loss of Desire: “I know I should want to, but I can’t muster the desire. Is there something wrong with me? I don’t really miss [...]







