The Kairos Centre – Books

Founder, Gary McFarlane, has published two leading books in this field of expertise.

Our Books

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The Art of Loving – Gary McFarlane

The Art of Loving A Book for singles, partners, marrieds and for those thinking of or preparing for marriage. If you want to refresh, revitalize, rekindle, refresh, resurrect your relationship; if you are about to enter a relationship or marriage; long time in a relationship or very very long term married or in a relationship, then this book is for you! It has the insights to improve and make even better, that which is already good! It is an educational book and at the same time provides self-help tools to help you in your current or future relationship – from an experienced Relationship Therapist, sex Therapist and sex Addiction Therapist. What do you do and what happens when your whole world – as you know it – comes toppling down?

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Song of Solomon for Lovers – Gary McFarlane

Sex goes wrong. It does not always work. It does not always click into place. The “No, No, No” and “don’t, don’t, don’t” before marriage, becomes “yes, yes, yes” after marriage, but so often and too often the “how, how, how” is missing from any guidance and pre-marriage preparation. Myths, misunderstandings, misinformation, misdirection and repeated practice, becomes entrenched and sex no longer holds the pleasure it once promised. Recapture it. Get it for the first time. Your enthusiasm that is! That sex can be great – when practiced in the context that God designed it and when His instruction manual is followed and practiced.